The Farm Wife Sagas

Vacationing in this chapter of life looks a whole lot different than it did five years ago.

Back then, it just took packing up the dogs’ things, tossing a bag in the truck, and heading to my parents’ beach camper for the weekend. We’d relax, unplug, and not think twice.

But that was before the goats. Before the rabbits. Before the dogs who aren’t exactly “beach material.” Before the cows needed daily check-ins. And of course—before VJ.

Now? Vacations come with a lot more lists, a lot less sleep, and a whole lot of laughter. They’re not as restful as they once were, but they’re filled with toddler squeals, sandy toes, cousin giggles, and overtired nights we’ll laugh about for years to come. Truth be told—VJ might be ready to move here permanently. (Hint hint, Daddy!)

Still, let’s be real: the prep before we leave is no joke. Farm chores don’t stop just because you want a tan. There’s always a mountain of things to handle before we even hit the road, and that little voice in my head asking, “Did I forget something?” never quite goes away.

That’s why I’m so thankful for our neighbors. If you live this kind of life and don’t know yours yet—make that connection. I don’t know where we’d be without the sweet family just down the road. They step in so we can step away, and knowing our animals are loved and cared for while we’re gone means more than they’ll ever know.

I grew up in a small town where everyone knew everyone (and I was kin to half of them!), so that sense of community came naturally. But moving to a new place? It was a little scary. Thankfully, our little hometown has welcomed us in ways I couldn’t have imagined. Whether it’s helping feed animals, keeping an eye on new livestock, watching VJ, or just showing up when we need it—they’ve been there.

We may just be neighbors on a map, but to me, they’re a lifeline. They’re the quiet comfort when my husband’s at work, the extra set of eyes when a baby goat is due, and the village VJ is growing up in.

So if you’re needing a reason to say hey to a new neighbor—this is it. You never know when you’ll find your next best friend, a piece of wisdom, or a helping hand you didn’t know you needed. I know mine have taught me some incredible lessons over the past seven years—and I wouldn’t trade this chapter for anything.

Romans 15:2

“Each of us should please our neighbors for their good, to build them up.