The Farm Wife Sagas

Everyone who knows me knows I’m an extrovert. I make friends easily and very rarely do I come across someone I don’t want to talk to. I thrive off of conversation and people. I get my energy from others and love being active in the lives of those around me and in my community. One of my greatest blessings is raising a little “mini me.” She never meets a stranger, she’s always making friends, and through her I’ve already met some incredible people.

All of this to say, my need for diverse conversations is what fuels me. The constant “go” and the feeling of purpose are what make me…me. To know that I can make a difference in someone’s life simply by encouraging them, or by listening as we share about business, family, or life in general, makes my day and reminds me that my place in this world is valid.

That is why adult conversations are so important. While I love answering the endless “why’s” of the day, deciding what is for dinner, or juggling the texts and phone calls, I also know those conversations alone can leave me drained. They are part of life, yes, but they do not always challenge me, refresh me, or help me grow. Having real, meaningful conversations with other adults gives me balance. It reminds me that I am more than just “Mom” or “Wife.” It reminds me that I was “Lindsey” before either of those titles and that fueling her should be a priority too.

The truth is, we all need a break. A break from the constant role of motherhood, where little hands and voices need us around the clock. And yes, even a small break from wifehood, where love and partnership are beautiful but still come with responsibilities. Stepping into conversations that are just mine, outside of those titles, does not make me less of a mom or a wife, it actually makes me better at both. It gives me perspective, renewal, and the space to breathe as me.

It is easy to fall into traditional roles or expectations of what life should look like, but the reality is nothing about the world today, or even relationships, is traditional anymore. And that is okay. Because in the middle of it all, conversation and connection are what keep me grounded, inspired, and able to show up fully in every role I play. It is also a great reminder that life is always changing and evolving, and while change can be hard, it is far easier and healthier to embrace it than to fight it.